20- The Family values
20- The Family values Ocia_863
All praise is for Allah. I testify that none has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone, who has no partner,
[And among His signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect]

And I testify that Muhammad is Allah's slave and messenger, peace and blessing upon our Prophet Muhammad and Upon his family and companions, Oh Muslims: family is a very important part of a human life. Family members are not only parents and brothers but also grandfathers, uncles, aunts and whoever relates to them. Muslims should contact with their relatives and please them. Indeed, the more the family adheres to the approach of Allah, The happier the family will be.

Our messenger ordered his people to choose the wife who is religious who used to keep her worship in general the good wife can change into the best situation.

There is a big reward for the wife who used to keep herself, her husband, offering her worship. This reward is the paradise.

If anybody asks what the services are that wife can offer?
The answers are:
-    To obey her husband
-    To take care of her children
-    Planting good manners in her children
-    To grow up the love of our homeland

“And live with them honorably; if you dislike them it may be that you dislike a thing through which Allah brings great deal of good”.

Every family must be strong and must keep the manners inside this family.

Our messenger used to help his family even he was very busy with his people, Aisha the mother of believers said: that our messenger used to help his family and used to serve them.

And one of the good manners that we must deal in the family is discussing fruitful opinions.

In our Islam husbands are ordered to be thankful for their wives and to deal honorably especially when the wife becomes very old and becomes in need.

Finally, we praise Allah, we seek his aid and we ask for his forgiveness.