Ar-Rafeeq
The Kind
He is the One Who adopts a gradual approach in creating and legislating, though He is able to do this all at once. He is the One Who treats His servants kindly and gently, not charging them with anything beyond their capacity.

This noble name does not occur in the Qur’an, yet it does in a Hadīth in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Allah is Kind and He loves kindness in all matters.”61 There is a nice story behind this Hadīth. Read it.

In light of this noble name, I would say:
1. Kindness has two meanings: one is better-known and the other is little-known. The better-known meaning is: gentleness and adopting what is easier. The little-known meaning is: adopting gradation.

2. Allah Almighty is Kind to His servants and wants ease for them; and He is also Kind in the sense that He adopts a gradual approach in His creation and legislation which involves apparent facilitation.
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61 Narrated by Al-Bukhᾱri)
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3. This name inspires great love for Allah and a strong sense of trust in His Shariah. Showing His grace to His servants, Allah Almighty says, (Allah does not charge any soul except its capacity.) (Sūrat Al-Baqarah: 286) ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported, "Whenever the Messenger of Allah (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) was given a choice between two things, he would always choose what is easier, unless it was a sin.” 62

4. Whoever wants to meet a lot of success and little failure should stick to the attribute of kindness about which the Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) beautifully said, “Whoever is deprived of kindness is deprived of all goodness.” (Narrated by Muslim) He also said, “Whenever kindness exists in something, it adorns it; and whenever it is removed from it, it makes it defective.”63

So, be kind to yourself and others and treat all people gently. Be gradual in acquiring good traits and advising people. Do not hasten to pick up the fruits before they are ripe.
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62 Narrated by Al-Bukhāri and Muslim)
63 Narrated by Muslim)
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If a person rushes to take something before its due time, he gets punished by being deprived of it. The Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said, “When Allah wills good for a household, He makes kindness exist amongst them.”64
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64 Narrated by Ahmad)
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