إجازة الشيخ أحمد بن محمد بن أحمد لبن بقراءة الإمام عاصم

Chapter 7: The Muslim Woman and Her Relatives 5017388

Chapter 7: The Muslim Woman and Her Relatives
The Muslim woman who is guided by the teachings of her religion never forgets that her relatives have rights over her, and that she is required to uphold the ties of kinship and to treat them well. The relatives (in Arabic arham, which literally means "wombs") are those to whom a person is linked by ties of blood, whether they are his heirs or not.

Islamic view of kinship ties
Islam has recognized the ties of kinship in a way that is unparalleled in other religions or "isms"; it enjoins Muslims to uphold the ties of kinship and condemns the one who breaks this tie. There is no greater proof of the emphasis placed by Islam on the ties of kinship than the vivid picture painted by the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, who described kinship (rahm) as standing in the vast arena of creation and seeking refuge with Allaah from being cut off. Allaah answers its prayer, taking care of those who maintain the ties of kinship, and cutting off those who cut off these ties.

This is seen in the sahih Hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, who said: "The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: `Allaah created the universe, and when He had finished, kinship (rahm) stood up and said, "This is the standing up of one who seeks Your protection from being cut off." Allaah said, "Yes, would it please you if I were to take care of those who take care of you and cut off those who cut you off?" It said, "Of course." Allaah said, "Then your prayer is granted."' Then the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said, `Recite, if you wish: “Then, is it to be expected of you, if you were put in authority, that you will do mischief, in the land, and break your ties of kith and kin? Such are the men whom Allaah has cursed for He has made them deaf and blinded their sight.” [Quran 47:22-23]'"1

Many ayat of the Quran reiterate and affirm the position of arham in Islam, encouraging people to uphold the ties of kinship and instilling a strong sense of the importance of recognizing kinship rights and avoiding neglect of those rights, and warning against abuse of them. One of these ayat is: “. . . Fear Allaah, through Whom you demand your mutual [rights], and [reverence] the wombs [that bore you] . . .” [Quran 4:1]

This ayah commands man to fear Allaah first and foremost, then places respect for arham second to that taqwa in order to emphasize its importance. For the true Muslim, the fact that rahm is often mentioned in conjunction with belief in Allaah and good treatment of parents, is enough to confirm its status and importance:

“Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents . . .” [Quran 17:23]

“And render to the kindred their due rights, as [also] to those in want, and to the wayfarer: but squander not [your wealth] in the manner of a spendthrift.” [Quran 17:26]

“Serve Allaah, and join not any partners with Him; and do good - to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need. Neighbours who are near, neighbours who are strangers, the Companion by you side, the wayfarer [you meet] . . .” [Quran 4:36]

Hence kind treatment of relatives comes one degree below kind treatment of parents on the scale of human relationships as defined by the Quran; from there, kindness and respect extends to encompass all those needy members of the greater human family.

This suits human nature, which is more inclined to start with kind treatment of those who are closer; it is also in harmony with the overall Islamic system of social organization and mutual responsibility which starts with the family then is readily extended first to relatives and then to society at large, in a spirit of mercy and friendship which makes life more pleasant and beautiful for mankind.

Upholding the ties of kinship is one of the major principles of Islam, one of the fundamentals that this religion has promoted from the first day the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, began to preach his message. It is one of the most characteristic features of Islamic law. When the emperor asked Abu Sufyan, "What does your Prophet order you to do?" he answered, "He tells us: `Worship Allaah alone and do not associate anything with Him. Give up the religion of your forefathers.' He tells us to pray, to give charity, to be chaste and to uphold the ties of kinship."2

Upholding the ties of kinship is counted as one of the major characteristics of this religion, along with pure monotheistic belief in Allaah , establishing prayer, and adherence to truthfulness and chastity, which were being explained to those questioners for the very first time. In the lengthy Hadeeth of `Amr ibn `Anbasah (may Allaah be pleased with him), which includes many of the basic teachings of Islam, he said: "I entered upon the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, in Makkah (meaning at the beginning of his Prophethood), and asked him, `What are you?' He said, `A Prophet.' I asked, `What is a Prophet?' He said, `Allaah has sent me.' I asked, `With what has He sent you?' He said, `He has sent me to uphold the ties of kinship, to break the idols and to teach that Allaah is One and has no partner whatsoever . . ."3

In this summary of the most important principles of Islam, the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, clearly gave precedence to upholding the ties of kinship and mentioned this among the foremost features of the faith. This is indicative of its high status in the framework of this religion which Allaah has revealed as a mercy to the Worlds.

The sources of Islam go to great lengths to encourage upholding the ties of kinship, and warn against cutting them off. Abu Ayyub al-Ansari (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: "A man said, `O Messenger of Allaah, tell me of a good deed that will grant me entrance to Paradise.' The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: `Worship Allaah and do not associate anything with Him, establish regular prayer, pay Zakaat, and uphold the ties of kinship.'"4

How great is the tie of kinship, and how heavily will it weigh in the balance of a person's deeds (on the Day of Judgement)! For it appears in the same context as worshipping Allaah, believing in His absolute unity, establishing regular prayer and paying Zakaat. Hence it is one of the best of righteous deeds that will guarantee Paradise and save one from Hell.

Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: "The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said, `Whoever would like his rizq (provision) to be increased and his life to be extended, should uphold the ties of kinship.'"5

So it is a blessing for the one who upholds the ties of kinship, a blessing which affects both his rizq and his life: his wealth will increase and he will live a longer and more blessed life. Ibn `Umar used to say: "Whoever fears his Lord and upholds the ties of kinship, his life will be extended, his wealth will increase and his family will love him more."6

The Muslim woman does not forget that upholding the ties of kinship is a duty required of women just as it is required of men, and that the words concerning it are addressed to every Muslim, whether man or woman, as is the case with all the general duties of Islam. So the Muslim woman upholds the ties of kinship sincerely and earnestly, and does not let her busy life of responsibilities distract her from doing so.

The Muslim woman who understands the teachings of her religion realizes that upholding the ties of kinship brings blessing in a woman's rizq and in her life, mercy from Allaah in this world and the next, and makes people love her and praise her. In contrast, breaking those ties will spell disaster and misery for her, earning her the dislike of Allaah and the people, and keeping her far from Paradise in the Hereafter. It is misery and deprivation enough for such a woman to hear the words of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam,: "The person who breaks the ties of kinship will never enter Paradise."7

It is sufficient to know that the mercy of Allaah will be denied to the one who breaks the ties of kinship; moreover, it will be denied to others in a group among whom is a person who breaks the ties of kinship, as in the Hadeeth reported by Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad8: "Mercy wilnot descend upon a people among whom is one who breaks the ties of kinship." Hence the great Sahabi Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) never liked to make supplication to Allaah in a gathering in which a person whhad broken the ties of kinship was present, because that would prevent mercy from descending and the du`a' from being answered.

In one Thursday night gathering, he said: "I urge everyone who has broken the ties of kinship to get up and leave us." No-one got up until he had said this three times. Then a young man got up and went to see a (paternal) aunt of his whom he had forsaken for two years. When he entered, she said, "O son of my brother, what brings you here?" He said, "I heard Abu Hurayrah say such-and-such." She told him, "Go back to him and ask him why he said that." (Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him) said: "I heard the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, say: `The deeds of the sons of Adam are shown to Allaah every Thursday evening before Jumu`ah, and the deeds of the one who breaks the ties of kinship are not accepted."9

The sensitive Muslim woman who is hoping to earn the pleasure of her Lord and attain salvation in the Hereafter will be deeply shaken by the news given in these texts, that breaking the ties of kinship will cause mercy to be withheld from her and her du`a' not to be answered. It will be a source of great misery to her to be in such a position, to do deeds which are of no avail, to seek the mercy of her Lord and not receive it. It is unimaginable that a true Muslim woman would ever break the ties of kinship.

Breaking the ties of kinship is a sin which the Muslim woman whose heart is filled with true guidance and the desire to obey Allaah and earn His pleasure would never commit, because it is one of the sins that Allaah has said will bring punishment; indeed, it is one of the foremost sins for which Allaah will punish the one who is guilty of them both in this world and the next, as is stated in the Hadeeth: "There is no worse sin for which Allaah will hasten the punishment of one who commits it in this world - in addition to what awaits him in the Hereafter - than oppressing others and breaking the ties of kinship."10

The acts of oppressing others and breaking the ties of kinship are very much like one another, so the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, mentioned them together in this Hadeeth. For breaking the ties of kinship is a kind of zulm (wrongdoing, oppression), and what zulm can be worse than breaking off relations with one's own kin and destroying the ties of love and affection? The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, described the oppression that befalls the ties of kinship when they are cut off: "The tie of kinship (rahm) is a close-knit relationship that comes from Allaah, the Most Merciful (al-Rahman) 11. It says: `O my Lord, I have been oppressed, O my Lord, I have been cut off.' He answers, `Will you not be content if I cut off the one who cuts you off and take care of the one who takes care of you?'"12

Allaah raised the status of the tie of kinship and honoured it by deriving its name, rahm, from one of His own names, al-Rahman. For He said (in a Hadeeth qudsi): "I am al-Rahman (the Most Merciful) and I have created rahm and derived its name from My name. Whoever takes care of it, I will take care of him, and whoever cuts it off, I will forsake him."13

These texts clearly confirm that the one who upholds the ties of kinship will be happy, loved and honoured and will enjoy the cool shade of his Lord's mercy; The one who breaks those ties will be denied that shade, and will be forsaken and abandoned, denied the the mercy, forgiveness and pleasure of his Lord.

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The Muslim woman upholds the ties of kinship according to the teachings of Islam
The Muslim woman who is truly guided by the teachings of her religion does not neglect to uphold the ties of kinship, and never lets the responsibilities of motherhood or the burden of caring for her house and husband distract her from always upholding these ties. So organizes her time so that she may visit her relatives, following Islamic teaching, which regulates these relationships and ranks them in order of priority and degree of closeness, starting with the mother, then moving on to the father, then other relatives, from the most closely-related to others who are more distantly related.

A man came to the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, and asked, "O Messenger of Allaah, who is most deserving of my good company?" He said, "Your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father, then those who are most closely related to you."14

The Muslim woman earns two rewards when she treats her relatives with kindness and respect: one reward for maintaining the relationship, and another reward for giving charity, if she is rich and can spend money on them. This gives her a greater incentive to give to her relatives, if they are in need. By doing so, she will earn two rewards from Allaah, and will also win the affection of her relatives. This is what the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, encouraged Muslims to do, in the Hadeeth narrated by Zaynab al-Thaqafiyyah, the wife of `Abdullaah ibn Mas`ood (may Allaah be pleased with him), who said: "The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: `O women, give in charity even if it is some of your jewellery.' She said, I went back to `Abdullaah ibn Mas`ud and told him, `You are a man of little wealth, and the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, has commanded us to give charity,

so go and ask him whether it is permissible for me to give you charity. If it is, I will do so; if not, I will give charity to someone else.' `Abdullaah said, `No, you go and ask.' So I went, and I found a woman of the Ansar at the Prophet's door, who also had the same question. We felt too shy to go in, out of respect, so Bilal came out and we asked him, `Go and tell the Messenger of Allaah that there are two women at the door asking: Is it permissible for them to give sadaqah to their husbands and the orphans in their care?

But do not tell him who we are.' So Bilal went in and conveyed this message to the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, who asked, `Who are they?' Bilal said, `One of the women of the Ansar, and Zaynab.' The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, asked, `Which Zaynab is it?' Bilal said, `The wife of `Abdullaah.' The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said, `They will have two rewards, the reward for upholding the relationship, and the reward for giving charity.'"15

The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: "Charity given to a poor person is charity, and charity given to a relative earns two rewards: one for giving charity and one for upholding the ties of kinship."16

The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, used to reaffirm the priority given to kind treatment of relatives at every opportunity. When the ayah “By no means shall you attain righteousness unless you give [freely] of that which you love . . .” [Quran 3:92]

Was revealed, Abu Talhah went to the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, and said: "O Messenger of Allaah, Allaah Says (which means) `By no means shall you attain righteousness unless you give [freely] of that which you love . . .' The most beloved of my properties is Bayraha' (a date orchard), which I now give up as sadaqah to Allaah , hoping to store up reward with Him. O Messenger of Allaah, dispose of it as you will." The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: "Bravo! You have got the best deal for your property. I have heard what you said, and I think that you should divide it among your relatives." Abu Talhah said, "I will do so, O Messenger of Allaah." He divided it among his relatives and (paternal) cousins.17

The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, looked far back into history and evoked ties of kinship going back centuries, when he enjoined good treatment of the people of Egypt, as is recorded in the Hadeeth narrated by Muslim: "You will conquer Egypt, which is known as the land of al-qirat (i.e. where coins are minted) so when you conquer it, treat its people well, for they have protection (dhimmah) and the ties of kinship (rahm)." Or he said: ". . . protection and the relationship by marriage (sihr)."18

The `ulama' explained that rahm here referred to Hajar, the mother of Isma`il, and sihr referred to Maryah, the mother of the Prophet's son Ibrahim - both of whom came from Egypt. What a display of loyalty, faithfuand good treatment, which extends to the kinsfolk and countrymen of those two noble women down throughout the ages!

The Muslim woman who hears these wise teachings of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, cannot but uphold her ties with her relatives, offering them her sincere love, keeping in constant contact with them and treating them witkindness and respect.

She maintains the ties of kinship even if her relatives are not Muslim
When the Muslim woman looks into the guidance of Islam, she sees that it reaches new heights of gentleness and humanity by enjoining its followers to uphold the ties of kinship even if one's relatives follow a religion other than Islam. `Abdullaah ibn `Amr ibn al-`As (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: "I heard the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, openly saying: `The family of Abu So-and-so are not my friends, for my friends are Allaah and the righteous believers. But they have ties of kinship with me, which I will recognize and uphold."19

When the ayah “And admonish your nearest kinsmen” [Quran 26:214] was revealed, the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, summoned Quraysh. They gathered and he addressed them both in general and specific terms: "O Banu Ka`b ibn Lu'ayy, save yourselves from the Fire. O Banu Murrah ibn Ka`b, save yourselves from the Fire. O Banu `Abdu Shams, save yourselves from the Fire. O Banu `Abdu Manaf, save yourselves from the Fire. O Banu Hashim, save yourselves from the Fire.

O Banu `Abdul Muttalib, save yourselves from the Fire. O Fatimah, save yourself from the Fire. I cannot do anything to protect you from the punishment of Allaah, but there are ties of kinship between us that I will recognize and uphold."20

The Prophet's teachings reached the hearts of the first Muslim men and women, and had an effect upon them, so that they were kind to their non-Muslim relatives.

Evidence of this may be seen in the report given by Ibn `Abd al-Barr in al-Isti`ab and by Ibn Hijr in al-Isabah, which describes how a female slave of Umm al-Mu'minin Safiyyah came to the khalifah `Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allaah be pleased with him, and said, "O Amir al-Mu'minin, Safiyyah loves the Sabbath (Saturday) and treats the Jews well." `Umar sent for Safiyyah and questioned her about that. She replied: "As far as the Sabbath is concerned, I have not loved it since Allaah replaced it with Jumu`ah (Friday) for me. As for the Jews, I have relatives among them with whom I uphold the ties of kinship." Then she turned to her slave and asked her what had made her tell such a lie. The slave woman answered, "Shaytan." Safiyyah's response was to tell her: "Go, you are free."21

`Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, did not see anything wrong with giving a garment that the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, had sent him to his half-brother (through his mother), who was a mushrik.22

Hence the Muslim woman sees that the spring of human emotion does not dry up when a person utters the Shahadah, but rather his or her heart overflows with love and good treatment towards his or her relatives, even if they are not Muslim. The expression of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, "but there are ties of kinship between us which I will recognize and uphold (literally `moisten')" is an example of Arabic eloquence, a metaphor in which the kinship tie (rahm) is likened to the earth, and is "irrigated" by upholding it, so that it bears fruits of love and purity; if it is cut off, it becomes barren and produces only hatred and animosity.

The true Muslim is on good terms with everyone and is liked by everyone, as they see good characteristics embodied in him. Islam encourages us to treat our parents with kindness and respect, even if they are mushrikin, and here we see how it encourages us to treat our relatives equally well, even if they are not Muslims either, based on the gentleness, humanity and mercy which this religion brings to the whole of mankind: “We sent you not, but as a Mercy for all creatures.”[Quran 21:107]

She fully understands the meaning of upholding the tie of kinship
For the Muslim woman, the tie of kinship is multi-faceted. Sometimes it may involve spending money to ward off poverty and relieve hardship; at other times it may mean making visits to strengthen the ties of love; or speaking and smiling kindly and offering a warm welcome; or giving advice, showing compassion or making a selfless gesture . . . i.e., acts of goodness which will awaken and increase human feelings of love, compassion and mutual support between those who are related to one another.

Hence the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, urged Muslims to uphold the ties of kinship even in the simplest of ways: "Maintain your ties of kinship even if it is merely with a greeting (i.e., saying al-salam `alaykum)."23

She maintains the ties of kinship even if her relatives fail to do so
The Muslim woman whose soul is infused with the true teachings of this religion upholds the ties of kinship and does not break them. She does not treat like with like, upholding the tie if her relatives uphold it and breaking it if they break it. The Muslim woman is one who always upholds the ties of kinship, because by doing so she is seeking the pleasure and reward of Allaah, not equal treatment in return. In this way she sets the highest example of that refined human behaviour which Islam is always keen to instil in the souls of Muslim men and women. It is, in fact, a most difficult level to achieve, except for those whom Allaah has guided and who have devoted themselves to seeking His pleasure.

The Muslim woman who is truly guided by the teachings of her religion is among this noble group of women who are eager to treat their relatives well in accordance with the teachings of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam: "The one who maintains a relationship with his relatives only because they maintain a relationship with him is not truly upholding the ties of kinship. The one who truly upholds those ties is the one who does so even if they break off the relationship."24

This is the refined human attitude to which Islam wants all Muslim men and women to aspire in their dealings with their relatives. Hence the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, reinforced the attributes of kindness, patience and tolerance in the Muslims, especially in the case of the one who upholds the ties of kinship and receives nothing in return but harshness, mistreatment and cruelty. He , sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, stated that Allaah is with the one who upholds the ties of kinship and does not receive similar treatment in return, and he drew a frightening picture of the punishment that awaits the hard-hearted person who harshly denies and breaks the ties of kinship. A man came to the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, and said, "O Messenger of Allaah, I have relatives with whom I try to keep in touch, but they cut me off. I treat them well, but they abuse me; I am patient and kind towards them, but they insult me." The Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: "If you are as you say, then it is as if you are putting hot dust in their mouths. Allaah will continue to supportyou as long as you continue to do that."25

How important is the tie of kinship, and how heavily will it weigh in the balance of the believer! How unfortunate are those who neglect it and cut off the ties of love and kinship! How great will be the reward of the woman who upholds the ties of kinship and bears her relatives' harshness with patience, so that Allaah Himself will support her against them, filling her heart with patience when they treat her badly and helping her to persevere in her noble attitude. How great is the sin of those men and women who break the ties of kinship, so that the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, likened such a person to one who eats hot dust as a punishment for breaking the ties of kinship when others are seeking to maintain it.

The true Muslim woman is one who upholds the ties of kinship no matter what the circumstances; she does not cut them off even if they cut her off. Thus she seeks the pleasure of her Lord, rising above the petty issues that may arise between relatives from time to time, and avoiding the insignificant matters that occupy the minds of lesser people and fill their hearts with hatred. She believes that she is above going down to the level of insignificant, foolish issues that cancel out good deeds and affecthe purity of the kinship tie. It never occurs to her to sink to such a level when she listens to the words of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam: "The tie of kinship (rahm) is suspended from the throne of Allaah, and says, `Whoever supports me, Allaah will support him, and whoever cuts me off, Allaah will cut him off.'"26

Footnotes:
1. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/20, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab thawab silah al-rahm wa ithm man qata'aha.
2. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Riyadh al-Salihin, 51, Bab al-sidq.
3. Sahih Muslim, 6/115, Kitab Salat al-musafirin, bab al-awqat allati nuhiya 'an al-Salat fiha.
4. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Riyad al-Salihin, 195, bab birr l-walidayn wa silah al-arham.
5. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/19, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab thawab silah al-rahm.
6. Reported by Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/140, Bab man wasala rahmahu ahabbahu Allaah.
7. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/26, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab thawab silah al-rahm wa ithm man qata'aha.
8. 1/144, bab la tanzil al-rahmah 'ala qawm fihim qati' rahm.
9. Reported by Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/142, Bab birr al-aqrab fa'l-aqrab.
10. Reported by Ahmad, 5/38, and Ibn Majah, 2/37, Kitab al-zuhd, bab al-baghy. Its isnad is sahih.
11. The connection is clearer in Arabic, as rahm and al-Rahman are derived from the same root. [Translator]
12. Reported by Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/146, Bab ithm qati' al-rahm.
13. Reported by Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/132, Bab fadl silah al-rahm.
14. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Riyad al-Salihin, 189, Bab birr al-walidayn wa silah al-rahm.
15. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 6/187, Kitab al-zakah, Bab fadl al-sadaqah 'ala'l-awlad wa'l-aqarib.
16. Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2/84, Abwab al-zakah, 26; he said it is a hasan Hadeeth.
17. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 6/189, Kitab al-zakah, bab fadl al-sadaqah 'ala al-aqarib.
18. Sahih Muslim, 16/97, Kitab fada'il al-Sahabah, bab wasiyyah al-Nabi (r) bi ahl misr.
19. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/29, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab thawab silah al-rahm.
20. Sahih Muslim, 3/79, Kitab al-iman, bab man mata 'ala'l-kufr la talhaquhu al-shafa'ah.
21. Ibn 'Abd al-Barr, al-Isti'ab, 4/1872; Ibn Hijr, al-Isabah, 8/127.
22. Fath al-Bari, 10/414, Kitab al-adab, bab silah al-akh al-mushrik.
23. Reported by al-Bazzar from Ibn 'Abbas, as stated by al-Haythami in Kashf al-astar, 2/373; its isnads strengthen one another, as stated by al-Sakhawi in al-maqasid al-hasanah, 146.
24. Fath al-Bari, 10/423, Kitab al-adab, bab laysa al-wasil bi'l-mukafi'.
25. Sahih Muslim, 16/115, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab tahrim al-tahasud wa'ltabaghud.
26. (Bukhaari and Muslim), See Riyadh al-Salihin, 191, Bab birr al-walidayn wa silah al-arham.

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